tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6736876520313398869.post9189363275400852189..comments2024-01-01T00:16:51.281-06:00Comments on To Love a Rose: Baby Goodies Wish List (from Bella Baby, Springfield, MO)*Mandie*http://www.blogger.com/profile/15070273168959077565noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6736876520313398869.post-39581456757033622552011-03-14T11:14:37.707-05:002011-03-14T11:14:37.707-05:00@Alicia: Thanks. I know that I need to suck it up...@Alicia: Thanks. I know that I need to suck it up. I know that people have it worse off than us. I know all of these things, yet going through it still stabs at my heart. It would be good if I had someone to vent to other than Mr. C; sometimes I think it's just different for men. Especially since I'm the one who's going through this - all his tests and results came back completely normal. I feel like I'm holding him back from having bio children, and that feeling sucks.<br /><br />@Betsy: There is no reason to feel guilty. As I said above to Alicia, there are people who are much worse off than we are; I feel guilty thinking about them sometimes. But guilt is fruitless in this arena. I can't change someone else's circumstances any more than they can change mine. I hope that things work out for you. The only thing I DO know in all of this is that God is bigger than all set-backs or hurts or disappointments. GL to you!*Mandie*https://www.blogger.com/profile/15070273168959077565noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6736876520313398869.post-50081916252518410692011-03-14T10:54:49.875-05:002011-03-14T10:54:49.875-05:00The night is always darkest right before the dawn,...The night is always darkest right before the dawn,, I don't know what to say to make you feel better, I wish I did. We are still TTC with much difficulty,(also with no one to really talk to about it and how I feel) and often I think of you and I feel guilty. I am sending sweet thoughts and baby vibes to you and Mr. C ,, and I pray that the angels wrap their wings around you so you can feel the love I'm sending your way, and help you feel some comfort. xoxoBetsyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12182694826569451980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6736876520313398869.post-37744853618175153512011-03-14T00:41:03.804-05:002011-03-14T00:41:03.804-05:00I know how you feel....ugh it is so frustrating. ...I know how you feel....ugh it is so frustrating. Just keep your chin up...there is a plan. Although you don't understand why or what it is at the moment you just have to hang in there. I read your blog out loud to my husband and he just laughed telling me "I once remember saying those same things"...and frankly still do everytime one of our friends or sibilings call with their happy news!!! It's just not fair. <br /><br />Well I pray and hope that things work out for you. I believe they will you just have to hang in there. Look at it this way you are giving it your all and that is what really matters. DON'T GIVE UP!<br /><br />Aliciaprilipp32@gmail.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13013316900001048391noreply@blogger.com